February 18, 2010

"TRUE [False] LOVE"

Emotions can be the best to have and the worst to have at times. If only happiness, joy, and excitement is all we could feel...unfortunately emotions come with hurt, pain & anger.Right now ive been going through a break up of 4yrs. That relationship brought me good times but mostly bad. Ive noticed alot of females (including me) stay in relationships that ARENT worth it. WHY? We're worth so much more than that. We waste our time on men i mean BOYS that arent worth it. In the end we're heartbroken and blame ourselves. Love is a complicated thing but it should NOT hurt in any kind of way. If your spending your nights crying..breaking up to making up every other week, chasing away his sidelines etc. its not "TRUE LOVE". I went through alot - not that i regret the 4 yrs spent with the person but that i should have walked away the first strike. Men catch on to things. If he's constantly repeating the same out of hand behavior & you keep feeding into the "SORRY" & "IT WONT HAPPEN AGAIN" and you go back - 8 out of 10 times he WILL continue. As females we need to stop it and realize our self worth is more valuable then ANY penis. There REALLY is more fish in the sea. It just takes time to find them..or them find you.

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